Cleopatra VIII Thea Philopator was born in 69 BC and was a member of the Ptolemaic dynasty, a family of Macedonian Greek origin that ruled Egypt after Alexander the Great’s death during the Hellenistic period. The Ptolemies spoke Greek and refused to speak Egyptian, yet Cleopatra learned many languages including Egyptian despite this and represented herself as a reincarnation of Isis, the goddess of health, marriage and wisdom. She was the last active Pharoah of Ptolemaic Egypt.
She was born to Ptolemy XII and an unknown mother. Her older sister was Berenice IV Epiphaneia, her younger sister was Arsinoe IV and her younger brothers were Ptolemy XIII Theos Philopator and Ptolemy XIV. During her childhood, her father was forced into exile and she accompanied him. Berenice attempted to send an embassy to Rome in advocacy of her claim but Ptolemy XII had them killed as she had been opposing his reinstatement.
High ranking Roman officials planned to put Ptolemy XII back in the throne. Though it was against Roman law, the governor of Syria, Aulus Gabinius, was convinced to invade Egypt to this end. During the invasion, a young Mark Anthony met and fell in love with the then 14-year-old Cleopatra. Once reinstated, Cleopatra’s father had Berenice and her supporters executed.
Ptolemy XII made Cleopatra a regent during his reign, and when he died in 51 BC, he left Cleopatra with a huge mess to clean up. There was a famine caused by drought, the Roman soldiers left behind after Ptolemy XII’s reinstatement that had been allowed to harass people in Alexandria under his rule, and the 17.5 million drachmas owed to the Roman Republic.
Not long after assuming the throne, Cleopatra rejected her younger brother as her co-ruler. It is possible that she married him, as according to Egyptian customs at the time, though there is no official proof of this. Ptolemy XIII eventually managed to gain control of the situation with the help of several powerful allies and forced Cleopatra to flee with her younger sister in 49 BC.
In Roman Syria, Cleopatra gathered supporters to launch an invasion of Egypt, but when she arrived with her forces she was met with her brother’s army so she set up camp outside a city in the eastern Nile Delta. Following the ambush and murder of the Roman general Pompey by Ptolemy XIII, Julius Caesar demanded that they stop their fight and make up with each other.
Despite Caesar’s command, Ptolemy XIII came to the Royal Palace at Alexandria with his army. Cleopatra visited Caesar without her brother’s knowledge, having caught wind of his penchant for having extramarital relations with royal women, and beguiled him with her beauty and wit.
When Ptolemy XIII found out his sister was in the palace he tried to incite a riot within the city but was arrested by Caesar. The pair were then brought to the assembly of Alexandria, where it was revealed that their father had left a will stating that they were his joint-heirs.
Caesar tried to get the siblings to agree to respect their father’s final wishes, but Ptolemy XIII felt that the terms brought forth by Caesar benefitted Cleopatra more than himself so he sent his army to attack both Caesar and his sister. Arsinoe made the decision to join her brother and was made queen. Their attack on Caesar’s palace lasted into the next year, effectively trapping Caesar and Cleopatra until reinforcements came and drove the opposing army out of Alexandria. Arsinoe and Ptolemy XIII retreated to the Nile, where Ptolemy drowned when the boat he tried to escape on capsized. Arsinoe was exiled to the Temple of Artemis at Ephesus.
At some point during this time, Cleopatra became pregnant with Caesar’s child.
Cleopatra became the joint ruler of Egypt with her twelve-year-old brother Ptolemy XIV. The two were married despite their ten year age difference, though Cleopatra still consorted with Caesar and even lived with him. Their son, Caesarion, was born in June 47 BC. Caesar was married to Calpurnia, and so did not publicly acknowledge the child as his own. Cleopatra, however, was adamant that the child was his.
When Caesar was assassinated in 44 BC, Cleopatra hoped that her son would be declared his successor, but it was not to be. Caesar had named his grandnephew Octavian as his direct heir. She had her brother poisoned only a few months later, then had Caesarion take his place.
Towards the end of 42 BC, Mark Antony had taken control of the eastern half of the Roman Republic. By the start of 41 BC, he had made his base in Anatolia and requested Cleopatra’s presence under the pretence of clearing up a military misunderstanding, but it is more likely that he wanted to form a romantic attachment to her. Cleopatra hosted Antony and some of his men on the ship she sailed to Anatolia in, and within two days of being together, she managed to convince Antony to have Arsinoe executed.
Before heading home, Cleopatra invited Antony to visit Alexandria that year. She continued to pamper him with palace lifestyle and chose him as the ideal father for her future children. Their relationship seemed to be beneficial to both of them; Antony returned Ptolemaic lands that had been taken from her family by Rome, and Cleopatra supplied him with 200 ships when he had to fight the Parthian Empire in Syria. This battle initiated a series of events that took Antony away for around three years, during which time Cleopatra gave birth to twins. She named the boy Alexander Helios and the girl Cleopatra Selene II. Unlike Caesar, Antony publicly acknowledged the legitimacy of these children despite his marriage to Fulvia.
Mark Antony’s relationship with Cleopatra became strained when he married Octavia the Younger and fathered two children with her. Despite this, he summoned her to him to discuss important military matters in which he required her support, and she brought their three-year-old children to him. This was the first time he had met them.
Cleopatra’s kingdom was greatly increased to secure Antony’s rule of the east, though it was still administered by the Roman government. The new territories fortified her lands and caused her to have two dates on her Ptolemaic coins as a symbol of this new era of her reign.
By 36 BC, Cleopatra was once again pregnant by Antony. Their second son, Ptolemy Philadelphus, was born that summer.
At an event in Alexandria, Cleopatra pronounced herself the Queen of Kings while dressed as Isis. She named Caesarion the King of Kings and gave Alexander Helios Armenia, Media and Parthia to rule. Cleopatra Selene II was given Crete and Cyrene, while Ptolemy Philadelphos was given Syria and Cilicia. It is possible that Antony and Cleopatra became married at this time.
Antony was fighting his rival Octavian by 34 BC. The war was fought with heavy propaganda, and both sides spread many false stories about the other. Octavian’s campaign spread lies that created a new perspective of Cleopatra that still prevails today. One of the most widely spread lies at the time was that Cleopatra had used witchcraft to brainwash Antony into following her.
The men’s rivalry became violent in 32 BC. Cleopatra supplied Antony with funds, 200 ships and insisted on accompanying him to the battlefield in Greece. Her decision to be involved in the battle caused many Roman soldiers to desert their posts. During this time she also convinced Antony to send his wife divorce papers.
By 31 BC, Rome had declared war on Cleopatra due to her aiding Antony. Octavian had a smaller fleet than Antony and Cleopatra, but it had far superior training. That spring, Antony and Cleopatra moved to Actium.
Various kings supported Antony and Cleopatra’s campaign, though they lost the support of Malichus I and an earthquake in Judea meant that Cleopatra’s former ally and longtime rival Herod did not turn up to support them. Several fights between their navy and Octavian’s occurred during the summer, most of which Antony and Cleopatra lost, and many more of their allies and soldiers defected to join the opposing force. Though they were at a distinct disadvantage at sea, Cleopatra was adamant to keep fighting them there as it kept Octavian away from Egypt.
On September 2nd 31 BC, the navies clashed at the Battle of Actium. Cleopatra commanded 60 ships from her flagship the Antonias. Antony had insisted that all the ships had sails on them so they could break a blockade, or in case they needed to retreat or advance on Octavian’s fleet. Cleopatra used this to her advantage by moving quickly through the battle and heading back to the Peloponnese.
Antony and Cleopatra ended up fleeing the battle together, though it continued without them until the morning of the next day. Many more of their troops and allies defected following the battle.
The couple parted ways when they arrived back in Egypt. Cleopatra went to Alexandria in an attempt to pass off the Battle of Actium as a success, while Antony went to gain more supporters in Cyrene, in which he was unsuccessful. Cleopatra decided to leave Egypt under her son’s rule and sail to a faraway country to recover from her losses, but Malichus I burned down her ships as revenge for the losses he suffered at her hands when they had been allies, so she had to stay.
Cleopatra sent a messenger to Octavian to ask that he let Antony live in Egypt as an exile and that her sons and daughter would be able to inherit her throne in exchange for large sums of money. She received no reply until she threatened to burn herself and all her treasure, but was told by Octavian’s representative that she should kill Antony if she wished to live. Antony had them flogged and sent back. There was no agreement.
By 30 BC the two sides still had not successfully negotiated a peace treaty, so Octavian invaded Egypt. Herod, who had aligned himself with Octavian, supported the invasion with supplies and soldiers. Octavian’s army quickly swept towards Alexandria, causing Antony’s forces to surrender. As Octavian advanced closer to Alexandria, Cleopatra hid in a tomb and sent a message to Antony saying she had killed herself. Antony’s grief caused him to end his own life by stabbing himself in the stomach, and he was brought dying to Cleopatra, who had not committed suicide at that point.
Gaius Proculeius, one of Octavian’s allies, managed to get into Cleopatra’s tomb before she could burn it to the ground while still inside it. He allowed Cleopatra to properly prepare and bury Antony’s body before taking her to Octavian at the palace, which he had taken and held her three youngest children hostage.
When Cleopatra found out that Octavian planned to take herself and her family to Rome as evidence of his success, she sent her son Caesarion away and planned her suicide. In August 30 BC, she and two of her maids took their own lives. Historians argue over how exactly they did this, though the popular belief is that it was suicide by asp bite. Although he was angry at Cleopatra’s death, Octavian allowed her to be buried in her tomb next to Mark Antony.
Caesarion returned to his home to assume the throne with the understanding that Octavian would allow him to live and rule. He was the king of Egypt for eighteen days before Octavian had him executed. After his death, Egypt became a province of the recently established Roman Empire.
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